OK, so it's 40 plus 6, but who's counting? My birthday comes next week, and I thought it would be nice to document some of the memories I've had of birthdays past, both mine and others. Growing up, one of my most memorable birthday parties was the year my guests brought, in lieu of presents, coins to donate to a family whose baby had numerous medical problems. I'm sure my mom must have suggested the idea to me, but she didn't force it on me. She helped me learn the joy of giving. My husband and I will forever remember our oldest child's third birthday. For the week preceding the birthday, we had read the children's book, Now I Am Three , to our son. The book lists all the fun things a three-year-old child is able to do. The big day came, and our son smiled constantly, happy to blow out candles and open presents. That night, after a story and prayers, as I was putting him to bed, he asked me, "When do I get ...