Thankful Me

  A red sign with white lettering that reads, "YOU ARE HERE" sits in a window in Southampton, England Last year, John and I traveled--a lot. Sometimes, it took a minute to remember exactly where I was. (The sign above was oh, so helpful!) This year, we haven't made future travel plans. We find ourselves in the stage of life where we see the possibility of generations above and below us needing more of our attention. So, we are dancing our way through limbo-land; being present in the moment while thinking ahead of things that might make the future easier.  1. I'm thankful we took last year to do so much traveling. It was a bit of a whirlwind. Even though I love seeing new places, I'm also a homebody by nature. I have no regrets about saying "yes" to so many vacations. No matter what the future holds, we made those memories together.  2. I'm thankful that while a new year can signify a new start, a new moment can, too. So what if I didn't consisten...

  A Gentoo penguin plods along the beach in the Falkland Islands in December 2024 Sometimes when I sit down to write a Ten Things of Thankful post, a theme clearly develops as I reflect upon the past week. Other times, like today, nothing in particular comes to mind as far as a theme goes, but yet there has been lots to be thankful for. This week, I'm thankful: 1. for a neighborhood ornament exchange. I've managed to miss it every year we've been here, for one reason or another, but this year I finally went. It was fun to chat and laugh with neighbors.  2. for the temple. It offers such a spirit of peace. 3. for game night. About once a week, we get together with youngest son and his girlfriend for dinner and game night. It's always good to laugh and talk together.  4. for the church women's organization. We had our Christmas party on Thursday night, and (OK, maybe there is a theme developing) it was good to laugh and visit together. 5. for talented performers. We w...

  A bright yellow sun sets in an orange sky above mountains and a lake I missed posting last week, though I had a rough draft written on my phone: 1. airport lounges 2. visiting musicians at PDX 3. everyone OK in small plane (an incident at our destination closed the airport for several hours, delaying our arrival home) 4. son picked us up hours later than expected 5. oldest grandchild is now a teenager! 6. oldest son and his wife were able to come for Thanksgiving weekend, as well as youngest son and his girlfriend, and youngest daughter 7. days spent visiting the aquarium, a museum, and a stained glass display 8. snow that waited to fall until after oldest son and his wife were headed home 9. the beginning of the Christmas season 10. John Now on to this past week: I'm thankful for:  1. a haircut. I'm on a twice-a-year schedule, but by the time the next appointment rolls around, I'm definitely ready! (That's probably a sign that I should make try 3 times a year, but le...

  A vintage image of a child pulling a pumpkin in a wagon, with the caption, "Thanksgiving Greeting. A pumpkin I bring you for Thanksgiving Day, With wishes that plenty may e'er with you stay." It's here: the week of Thanksgiving in the United States, when "We gather together" and reflect on "the joy of human love, brother, sister, parent, child" as well as "friends on earth, and friends above." We feast and enjoy the warmth of shelter and good company. Participating in the Ten Things of Thankful is a fitting way to kick off the week.  The Ten Things of Thankful blog hop, by nature of its title if nothing else, encourages us to enumerate (to 10) things we are thankful for, but also is flexible enough to not require an exact count. Also, as Clark has dubbed "hypo-grats," allowance is made for things that wouldn't appear to fit, but provide opportunity to develop an attitude of gratitude. ("What doesn't kill you make...

  13 year old yellow lab, Drexel, looks into the camera It's been quite the eventful week, so let's dive right into the list! 1. Granddaughter #5 (aka grandchild #7) was born on Sunday afternoon. I haven't met her in person yet, but from what I can tell from the photos I've received, she's adorable. I'm thankful for grandchildren. 2. Drexel turned 13 years old on Tuesday. That is in human years, so he is more a sweet old gentleman than an energetic teen. I'm thankful for Drexel. 3. Tuesday was also Veteran's Day here in the United States, which was a chance to remember those who served our country--including both of my grandfathers, who served in World War II. One grandpa was in the Navy in the Pacific, and the other served in the Army stateside as an Army postal worker. I'm thankful for veterans. My dad's dad, in his Navy uniform My mom's dad, making his rounds on his mail carrier bicycle. 4. Also Tuesday, I was able to cross something off m...

  Stock photo of two hands placed upon an open notebook, preparing to write Have you ever attempted to keep a journal, only to realize that somehow your last entry was from weeks, months, or even years ago? The thought of trying to adequately report on the events of the elapsed time is overwhelming. What happens then? Do you ignore the missing days and just pick up from the present? Do you give a perfunctory accounting, or do you painstakingly try to recreate the past and vow to never again get so far behind?  I'm still trying to figure out just which method I will take for this blog, though I'm leaning toward the middle of the road idea of using a few words and photos in reflection, moving on, and calling it good. If the Bible can be as succinct as "And God called the dry land Earth; and the gathering together of the waters called he Seas: and God saw that it was good." (Genesis 1:10), then surely I can be forgiven for glossing over September and October. The plan af...