Saturday, December 31, 2011
So, the real question is, what are my top priorities?
I love this quote by Elder Ian S. Ardern:
"I know our greatest happiness comes as we tune in to the Lord and to those things which bring a lasting reward, rather than mindlessly tuning in to countless hours of status updates, Internet farming, and catapulting angry birds at concrete walls. I urge each of us to take those things which rob us of precious time and determine to be their master, rather than allowing them through their addictive nature to be the master of us."
I have no internet farm, nor have I played Angry Birds, not because I am opposed to games, but because I know I would devote too much time to them. Better to not start.
Blogging has become a new hobby in 2011. I really am enjoying it, but at the same time, I don't want it to become a time waster. So, in 2012, I hope to use this blog as a way to keep me focused on what really is important.
Thankful thought: Thanks for times of reflection, thanks for the process of learning, and thanks for patience with ourselves and others as we strive to improve.
Friday, December 30, 2011
If you would like a copy, click here. Please let me know if that isn't working. I'm still learning!
Update: I think it is easiest to just right click on the image, "save picture as", and then open to print in whatever format you wish.
Thankful thought: Thanks for those who share their knowledge to help me (and others!) learn new skills.
Thursday, December 29, 2011
1. The car is probably due for another oil change now.
2. A 1999 Ford Escort can go a LOT faster than I realized!
Thankful thought: Thanks for honest auto repairmen, even if they sometimes mess up the paperwork!
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
In some ways, though, my house is noisier. My brother and his wife and kids are staying with us for a few days. His oldest child is years younger than my youngest, so we are enjoying having young children in the house. One of their favorite games is guessing which cousin will wake up first. We just laughed when we were told that my brother's oldest woke my oldest up by saying, "It's 8:30!! Why aren't you up? Are you sick????" After a week of college finals, I think it's OK to still be in bed at 8:30.
Even with young ones running around, I've found time to immerse myself in a new book. I love to read, but don't finish nearly as many books as I did when I was younger. Yesterday, I read "The Best of Friends," which John's mom gave me for Christmas. It made me think of my friends and the various paths our lives have taken. For many of my friendships, time and distance have taken their toll (facebook notwithstanding), yet I imagine I could catch up with the amazing women I call friends without too many awkward silent pauses.
Thankful thought: Thanks for friends, both those I have had the pleasure of knowing since childhood, and those who are more familiar with my adult life. Each of you has been a wonderful example to me.
Friday, December 23, 2011
We do have family traditions that I am pleased with. We have family home evening (FHE) every week, for instance. I would be lying if I said that every FHE is a model of domestic living, though. We are human, and sometimes the lesson or activity doesn't quite go over the way we would hope. One joke in the Mormon community is that family home evening is the only argument that begins and ends with prayer.
Another less-than-stellar moment occurred on vacation. We had taken a red-eye flight to Boston. We arrived in the morning, and in an attempt to adjust to eastern time, we stayed awake and started walking along the Boston Trail. At one point on our walk, I stopped the family to say, in what was supposed to be a more patient voice than it actually was, "We are here on vacation to have fun! Stop arguing and be happy!" Oh, yes, I think I was mistaken for June Cleaver that day. Not really.
I am flattered that one of our family traditions brings joy to others, but I am not at all comfortable with the thought that somehow another family would somehow feel inferior, just because our tradition is not one in which they participate.
If I took my neighbor to the proverbial family "wreck" room, instead of the literal one I mentioned in this post, she would find that we have had our share of challenges. I never would have imagined some of the turns we've had in the past (nearly) 25 years. Each challenge has molded me into who I am today. I have learned so much, and one lesson I've learned is the importance of being patient with each other.
I imagine that her family has some traditions or strengths that are worthy of emulation which we haven't adopted. There are so many great ideas, habits, and traditions! In retrospect, I wish I had kept the kids' photo scrapbooks up-to-date. Instead, I am going to have to wade through piles of photos and try to fill in the past ten years or so. I wish I had been more patient and less tired at the end of the day. I wish I could have come up with a great cooking/cleaning/organizing schedule and stuck with it!
Guess what? There will always be more good ideas than can possibly be completed in one lifetime. We're going to make mistakes, and we're going to omit doing some things that others seem to do effortlessly. It's OK!
My neighbor would probably be surprised (or relieved) to know that we have various levels of enthusiasm with our family members regarding caroling. However, everyone in the family knows that caroling is just something we do. In the end, more good memories than bad come from it (much like family home evening). And really, isn't that what we want in our families?
The perfect family? No, but it's MY family, and I love it!
Thankful thought: Thanks for each member of my imperfect family, and thanks for each person's patience with imperfect me!
Thursday, December 22, 2011
I don't know Cambodian cuisine, but I made a guess that rice and curry wouldn't be completely foreign to him, and served that. Dessert, however, was probably a bit strange. I found an idea for Snowmen Sundaes here, and thought it was a cute, quick dessert. We used pretzel sticks instead of licorice for the arms, though..
The missionaries try to keep themselves busy and focused on the true meaning of Christmas during December, perhaps in part to help stave off homesickness. The elder from Cambodia is primarily experiencing culture shock, though, I think. He said that he converted to the church about 5 years ago, and his family is Buddhist, so he did not grow up celebrating Christmas. He said he enjoys seeing the Christmas trees.
Moms of missionaries look forward to Christmas (and Mother's Day), because the missionaries are allowed to call home on those two days. I loved hearing oldest son's voice, and loved hearing just how much he was enjoying his time of service.
Service, love and Christmas just seem to go together, don't they?
Thankful thought: Thanks to missionaries worldwide, who give their time in service to others. Thanks also to those who are kind to them, regardless of whether or not they want to hear their message.
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
I think we have caroled every December, with the exception of the year of pregnancy bed rest (OK, it was only 20 weeks, but it felt like a year--and it was definitely over the holidays!) Even then, though, John might have taken the other kids caroling. I honestly don't remember. But I digress again. My point is that though caroling is such a big tradition for us, I have not once thought to document the tradition with a photograph. I did notice, however, that one of our friends snapped a picture of us last night. I'm going to ask if I can get a copy of it.
I'm wondering how many other traditions we have that I have neglected to photograph. Blogging has helped me pick up my camera more often than in the past, but there is obviously room for improvement.
Thankful thought: Thanks for traditions, which seem to be remembered with or without a camera. But thanks also for cameras. And thanks for wonderful neighbors who, if they have perfect pitch, don't let on that they do.
Monday, December 19, 2011
Of course, I made mistakes, but they were minor and hopefully unnoticed. The choirs performed marvelously, under the direction of talented choristers. There was a quiet stillness after the final strains of "Silent Night" concluded. Choir and congregation alike felt the true spirit of Christmas.
Thankful thought: Thanks for patient choristers and choir members, who not only ignore my (sometimes glaring) errors, but even thank me for playing for them. It's wonderful to be around so many talented, gracious people. Thanks also to my college kids who are home for the break, one of whom willingly acted as my page-turner yesterday. I know I should be able to turn my own pages, and I am getting better at it, but it was so nice not to have to worry about it!
Thursday, December 15, 2011
One of the garden tasks that makes me chuckle is gathering the tumbleweeds. I suppose if I had grown up here, I would not find the task so humorous. Because the novelty has not worn off, I am still amused by this job.
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Monday, December 12, 2011
Well, last week in our local Goodwill thrift store, I found an oil painting that fills the bill:
Living in the desert, I sometimes miss the rain, so it is nice to see the clouds and damp pavement in this painting.
I wanted John's opinion before I came home with it, so that night, I took John to the store. Then I waited at the store while John drove back home to get the van, as I grossly underestimated the size of the painting/overestimated the size of our car's trunk.
Here it is in the room. I like the way it adds interest to an otherwise blank wall.
So, once again, I am planning the dinner around the sour cream, so-to-speak. If you were planning the rest of the room, what would you do? I'm thinking it needs some sort of window covering and some furniture, and paint is always fun, but that's about as specific as my planning is. Just about any color could tie in, due to the painting. Here's the rest of the room, if that helps:
So, what do you think?
Thankful thought: Thanks for artists who share their talents, and thanks, Mom & Dad, for funding my early Christmas present! (We used a tiny bit of John's gift money as well.)
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
I wish I could say that I have finished canning jars upon jars of spaghetti sauce, but that is not the case. However, I can say that in addition to the more traditional December activities of cookie-baking and fudge-making, I have peeled 60 pounds of tomatoes. For the curious, that is around 24 quarts of tomatoes. Tomorrow I plan to saute onions, peppers, and mushrooms to add to the tomatoes, and then let the concoction simmer on the stove for hours. I think I should end up with 18 quarts of spaghetti sauce when all is said and done.
Spaghetti sauce needs to processed in a pressure canner. Pressure canners always strike a bit of fear in me. If the food is not processed correctly, I could end up serving my family a big batch of botulism. While I'm trying to assure correct processing, though, the darn canner rattles and complains so much that the risk of explosion in my kitchen seems imminent. However, I come from a long line of survivors of home processing, so the canning tradition continues.
I have a confession to make, though. I haven't used the pressure canner in years. And you know what that means: I have to replace the sealing ring, or my family will die from poorly-processed food. I had never replaced the ring. I dreaded the task. I didn't know where to find a ring, and imagined the procedure would be horribly difficult.
Well, I was silly!!! Amazon.com carries everything, including sealing rings for canners. And replacing the ring was much quicker than replacing a vacuum cleaner belt (not to mention much cleaner). All I had to do was take the old ring out, wash the lid, and put the new ring in. It was that simple!
How many other tasks do I dread for no good reason? Hopefully, the next time I'm dragging my feet, I'll be able to remember the lesson of the sealing ring.
Thankful thought: Thanks to Mom and Grandma, who have convinced me that canning without causing illness is possible. Thanks also to generous farmers.
Sunday, December 4, 2011
A celebrity reads the account of the birth of Jesus from the book of Luke in the Bible. Gary Sinise read this year.
After every few verses, the choir sings another musical number. The audience joins for "Silent Night."
Literally thousands of individuals, most in standing-room-only roped-off partitions, make up the audience. I generally don't like crowds, but in this instance, the number of people adds to the experience. Knowing that we are all gathered together to celebrate Christmas through song and scripture brings me such a feeling of love and unity. I might not know the names of the strangers around me, but I know they are my brothers and sisters. What better way to start the season than that!
Thankful thought: Thanks for musicians who share their talents, celebrities who read, and Disneyland for hosting such a religiously-based event each year. Thanks also for my family, and thousands of others, who share the experience with me!
Thursday, December 1, 2011
I had every intention of sharing photos of my lovely, decorated house in a blog post yesterday. The trouble is, I'm not Martha Stewart. The trees are up, but my house is a mess. I'm not done. The boxes of lights for the outside are plopped unceremoniously in the entry. Many of the empty boxes which held the ornaments are still waiting to be returned to the attic. And the rest-of-the-year decorations which were removed to make way for the Christmas stuff have yet to be hidden from view. (To be honest, even Martha Stewart has to get the boxes down from the attic or where ever she stores them. I think.)
As I mentioned in this post, it is a myth that some people skate through life in spotless houses. That post seemed to resonate with the real women I know, so I've decided to resist the urge to make my house perfect (as if that is even in my capability!) prior to sharing these photos. I'm enjoying the Christmas decorations, even though this is still a work-in-progress.
(Thanks to puppy, the carpet cleaner is oft-used, and as a result, chairs get moved around while the floor dries!)
Welcome! Don't trip over a box! (I actually did just that two nights ago. I've got the bruise to prove it, too. Life can be messy.)
The table holds a bunch of stuff. Over the next few days, I'm going to organize the display into something beautiful. I love the anticipation of possibility!
This is the first year we've had this tall tree. It was a bargain at a garage sale this summer. When I went to set it up, I realized it was missing something. Fortunately, John was able to make a stand in no time flat!
I know it's cramped, but I love displaying the nativities on the mantle.
Even with the messes, Christmas brings a sense of peace, along with anticipation. Peaceful anticipation sounds like it should be an oxymoron, but somehow it is fitting in December.
May you enjoy this season, messes and all.
Thankful thought: Thanks for the sights, smells, sounds, tastes, and above all, the feel of Christmas!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Though the Thanksgiving holiday is over, thanksgiving spills out into the Christmas season. I'm starting to decorate, and I love to reminisce as the various ornaments go on the tree. I'll post photos later. While I like to have my home look inviting, the real beauty for me is in the memories and spirit of love.
Thankful thought: Thanks for many handmade decorations, which remind me of the stubby-fingered cuties of the past who would proudly hang their glittered, cinnamon-scented creations on the tree. They have outgrown the stubby-fingered stage, but I still think they are cuties!
Sunday, November 27, 2011
I am so glad today is Sunday, though, and that I have one day to rest before the regular daily schedule begins. And I am so glad for the following counsel from Spencer W. Kimball regarding Sunday activities:
"The Sabbath is a holy day in which to do worthy and holy things. Abstinence from work and recreation is important, but insufficient. The Sabbath calls for constructive thoughts and acts, and if one merely lounges about doing nothing on the Sabbath, he is breaking it. To observe it, one will be on his knees in prayer, preparing lessons, studying the gospel, meditating, visiting the ill and distressed, writing letters to missionaries, taking a nap, reading wholesome material, and attending all the meetings of that day at which he is expected."
Did you pick up on the taking a nap part? I tend to be like a young child when it comes to taking naps; even though I might need one, I resist taking one because there are so many other things I could/should be doing. I absolutely love reading that sometimes taking a nap is precisely what is needed. After church, I followed that advice, and I feel so much better!
Thankful thought: Thanks for commandments, which truly are blessings, and thanks (again!) for John, who fixed lunch and encouraged me to nap.
Saturday, November 26, 2011
I hope your Thanksgiving weekend is similarly filled with wonderful "in real life" interactions. One of the iconic male Thanksgiving traditions seems to be watching football games. Of course, it is vitally important to get your fantasy football team set before the games begin. I believe that activity prompted this modern three-generation family photo:
Thankful thought: I am thankful for computers, but I am more thankful for the people behind the screens. I am also thankful for parents who got rid of the TV when I was young, which allowed me a childhood free from that distraction.
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Oh, I am so smart. What an easy fix!
I just saved having to trouble John with a "honey-do" when he gets home from work. What a great wife I am. Such a helper!
Uh oh . . .
Just serve me up a big helping of humble pie for Thanksgiving, and please pass the super glue.
Thankful thought: Thanks to whoever invented super glue (I hope it works well enough), and thanks to my wonderful, patient, never-disparaging husband who realizes my heart is in the right place, even when my efforts to help fail miserably. Oh, and he does know how to replace toilets if need be. I just hope he doesn't have to.
Oh, keep your fingers crossed on the super glue repair. Cheaptoilettanklids.com tells me I made a $50 blunder!
Because the tables are pushed together, the idea is that everyone can join in one conversation if desired.
Some of the furniture from the family room made its way to the dining room:
I rather like the coziness of the room now. (I think it feels more cozy than it looks.) I'll probably keep it that way, at least through Christmastime, since we will be in need of the large table arrangement through the holidays. I envision putting the Christmas tree in that room--which, of course, will add to the comfortable feeling.
Today will be spent making beds, cleaning bathrooms, and stopping at Trader Joe's for the obligatory Tofurkey for the vegetarians of the bunch. Reno helped me out already today by sleeping in! He was probably all tuckered out from waking up so many times during the night. However, I appreciated a couple of hours of uninterrupted work time this morning.
Thankful thought: I'm thankful for anticipation and the fun of planning.
Monday, November 21, 2011
Today is just going to be one of "those" days, at least where this blog is concerned. My attempted blog post from yesterday never materialized. Oh, I had plenty of ideas, but nothing ended up sounding right. This morning I had another idea. I was going to design my own visiting teaching handout and share that. Well, the handout turned out great (IMHO), but I'm suffering from being on the learning curve and can't quite figure out how to show it to you on the blog. There is a way to post to a blog from Word, but I keep getting a warning that says my log-in info could be visible if I continue. Umm, no thanks. Anyway, I'll continue trying to learn what I'm doing blog-wise, but I can't spend more time on it right now. (Thanksgiving is coming, after all!)
In the meantime, I will share more puppy photos, because, really, they never grow old (the photos, that is).
As you can see, Reno is still really small. We had to move his food and water bowls out of the stand:
Saturday, November 19, 2011
We met the puppy truck for the first time. It was hard to miss.
Happy day! The truck driver put Reno into our arms.
After a comfortably-paced meal, a trip to the backyard to relieve, and a bit of playtime, Reno is curled up sleeping by my feet. So far, so good.
Thankful thought: Thanks for my family, particularly John, who supports me in my crazy endeavors like puppy raising. (And youngest daughter, who is a co-puppy raiser with me!)
Check back tonight if you'd like to see some cute puppy photos. Nicki is ready to live with the man who will be her puppy raiser. (She's reliably housebroken now.) We will miss having her around, but we will not be puppy-less. This afternoon we get to meet the Guide Dogs for the Blind puppy truck to receive a 9-week-old male yellow lab. We will be his puppy raiser until he is ready to return to San Rafael for his formal guide dog training, typically when he is 14-18 months old. So stayed tuned . . .
Thankful thought: Thanks for the colorful fall leaves and for enthusiastic sweet puppy greetings.
Thursday, November 17, 2011
I do agree with John in that I do not enjoy the "rush, rush, buy, buy" commercialization of Christmas. (Though I do like to shop ahead throughout the year when I find a bargain.) I would rather the Christmas decorations appeared after Thanksgiving, though I'm not above putting the tree up on the day after Thanksgiving.
However, I am definitely all for having an attitude of gratitude, as well as keeping the spirit of Christmas alive, throughout the year. As it is only one week until Thanksgiving, I thought I'd share the following video clip to get us all inspired to consider those things for which we are thankful.
Thankful thought: Thanks for Thanksgiving, which gives us an opportunity to reflect on how fortunate we are.
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
The bunk bed has been transformed:
I even straightened things up a bit and hung pictures:
Don't worry, though. I didn't get rid of anything:
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Granted, the photo isn't great, but it shows a day's labor done. We've had a leaky roof since we moved here, which we've had "fixed", only to have it drip again in next year's rain shower. (Living in the desert does have its advantages; our rains are infrequent.)
Today, though, I have high hopes that the repair was done correctly. Instead of applying a seal of some sort, this time the tiles were removed and new felt paper put down. That should eliminate the need for drip-catching buckets.
It feels good to have another big item on the to-do list done, even if it wasn't a DIY project.
Thankful thought: Thanks for honest workers who take pride in a job well-done.
Monday, November 14, 2011
A few years ago, John and I (and three of our kids) had the opportunity to participate in a pioneer trek re-enactment, where we pushed and pulled handcarts over the course of a few days. (Our oldest had participated four years previously, and our youngest will have the opportunity to participate this next summer.) We loved being Ma and Pa to the teens who were assigned to be our family for the trek. I also gained a deeper appreciation for those handcart pioneers. I was only pushing and pulling for a few days, during pleasant weather, with adequate food, and with no worry about the outcome for my family. The pioneers walked for months, in freezing weather, on very strict rations of meager food, and experienced sickness and even death. Their faithful examples stand to remind me of how much I have to be thankful for.
Thankful thought: Thanks for food, shelter, easy transportation, medical treatments, and those who live with great conviction.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Last year, we used a folding table to supplement our regular tables at Thanksgiving. This year, said folding table is being used as a craft table. I could, of course, take everything off the table, but John suggested that we pick up another folding table. I suggested that if we were going to buy another table, maybe we could find one with a little more character for about the same price. Thanks to craigslist, I was right!
Here's a peek at a couple of the feet:
Aren't they cool? The table is a drop-leaf style, with 4 additional leaves. This is what it looks like with the additional leaves removed, and the sides dropped:
The table could definitely use refinishing, but the additional leaves are in good shape. The table is definitely solid wood--mahogany, John thinks. Imagine how beautiful it will be when the entire table has a finish like this:
(OK, so maybe I should have dusted/polished that leaf first.) I think that if I'm being realistic, the "refinishing" that my Thanksgiving guests will see will be a tablecloth. Maybe by Thanksgiving 2012, I'll have it really refinished.
Anyway, the table is over 8 feet long when all the leaves are in. I love the fact that it can be as large or as small as we need it to be. And I absolutely love that we paid just a bit more than the cost of a utilitarian plastic mass-produced rectangular table. (Not that there is anything wrong with those--in fact, we will definitely be using utilitarian plastic mass-produced chairs around this new table!)
Thankful thought: Thanks to my mom, who taught me the joy of bargain-hunting!
Thursday, November 10, 2011
|Donald Joseph Telfer|
This next photo is of my grandpa in his WWII navy uniform:
|Ettis Raymond Brockett|
This final photo doesn't have anything to do with Veteran's Day, but I just love my great-grandma's outfit!
|Malissa Edna Morgan|
My mom remembers Lis as an outgoing, talkative person. She also remembers the iced cakes with nuts sprinkled on top that Lis would make. According to my mom, Lis believed that if you knew how to play the piano, you would be popular. Lis did not play the piano, but send money to my mom's parents so they could purchase a piano so my mom could take lessons. She loved lilacs and listening to baseball games on the radio. She particularly like the Yankees. She liked to play cards, and taught my mom to play solitaire. Apparently she was very ill when she was young, and as a result, did not have much hair, so she always wore hats. She was also tall, about 5'8", which made her a bit self-conscious. I think she must have been pretty self-assured the day she wore this hat, though. It would easily push her height well over the six-foot mark. I imagine it was quite the fashion statement in its day!
Thankful thought: Thanks for grandparents, great-grandparents, and so on. I love learning about their personalities, and seeing how they have influenced my life. For example, if Lis hadn't funded the purchase of a piano for my mom, I probably wouldn't have learned how to play. (Although I'm afraid my piano playing didn't put me in the ranks of the popular kids at school. My kids are absolutely convinced, and probably rightly so, that I was [am?] a geek.) I have to wonder, too, if loving lilacs is an inherited trait. If so, I know where I got it!